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Post by bluebananaeater on Nov 14, 2016 23:03:56 GMT
Speaking of guys getting the snip... I hate when I date a dude that is admimant he never wants children but wont consider it... Like wtf dude, if you are in your 30s and not willing to take that step while screaming about how you never want kids, would want the girl to have an abortion, etc etc etc... but refuse it? I dont think I trust you...
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Post by Deleted on Nov 14, 2016 23:10:34 GMT
~fragile masculinity~
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Post by lana on Nov 14, 2016 23:18:35 GMT
I've met a few of those. It always makes me embarrassed for them, it's such an immature way of looking at things (and a way to push "the burden" solely on to women, GJ).
Boyfriend and I are planning to get him snipped when I can be there for a few days for recovery. Gonna be awesome.
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Post by Khan on Nov 14, 2016 23:34:22 GMT
Dated a dude once who was adamant about not wanting kids but it "wasn't his responsibility" to prevent babies and getting snipped was "basically internal castration." -_-
Never went on a second date.
I'm also realizing I know a lot of shitty people.
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Post by chemicalburn on Nov 14, 2016 23:40:06 GMT
Saying it's not your responsibility to prevent babies sounds like a good way to accidentally end up with a baby.
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Post by djembekah on Nov 15, 2016 0:57:48 GMT
That pisses me off so much. Even as a person who wants babies and has a boyfriend who wants babies. Men can snipped and fucking go through the goddamn birth control trials or they can deal with babies
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Post by rayne on Nov 15, 2016 1:46:29 GMT
has anyone waxed their legs before? curious to see if it's better or worse than shaving. I know my surgeon doesn't care about it but I'd like to at least show some effort. I used the Nair wax strips once. It was alright, not super painful or anything, but it wasn't really easier than shaving, I missed a bunch of spots and the residual wax was a pain. Plus, my skin reacted to every hair that got pulled out so it looked like hundreds of mosquito bites for a while. The regrowth took longer though, so that's a plus. This is what I'm wondering about. How my skin would react and how long it'll last. I figure at least 8 weeks of no shaving, more or less. with everyone touching my leg I feel like I should make an attempt on keeping it tidy, even though everyone will understand.
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Post by kilikina on Nov 15, 2016 2:39:11 GMT
yay! how ya feelin? edit: I can't read. tell me how you feel on thursday haha It's ok! I will update for sure. I'm super excited to not have to worry about it for 5 years.
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Post by weregoat on Nov 15, 2016 2:48:38 GMT
I used the Nair wax strips once. It was alright, not super painful or anything, but it wasn't really easier than shaving, I missed a bunch of spots and the residual wax was a pain. Plus, my skin reacted to every hair that got pulled out so it looked like hundreds of mosquito bites for a while. The regrowth took longer though, so that's a plus. This is what I'm wondering about. How my skin would react and how long it'll last. I figure at least 8 weeks of no shaving, more or less. with everyone touching my leg I feel like I should make an attempt on keeping it tidy, even though everyone will understand. Fwiw, the reaction didn't last all that long (my skin responds so dramatically to trauma) but then again, everyone is different.
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Post by snowlights on Nov 15, 2016 3:13:07 GMT
First period in a few months (last two didn't show up, probably from stress and upping the dose on one prescription plus the pill I'm on makes my period super light anyway). It's uh.....it's......chunky. Not heavy or anything just......uh...really gross.
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Post by dragonstar on Nov 15, 2016 6:26:49 GMT
Speaking of the snip snip... my hubs is getting it done this Wednesday. Just to fuck with him I've been showing him random YouTube videos of the procedure because he is a wuss, and it gets me off to see him squirm.
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Post by lana on Nov 15, 2016 7:07:09 GMT
HAHAHAHA. That's so evil, I love it. Please update on how it goes, I'd love to hear an experience of healing!
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Post by Erica on Nov 15, 2016 10:27:24 GMT
I've been thinking about sterilization more and more lately (due to having a dumbass for president). I've never wanted kids, I'm over 30 and my boyfriend definitely doesn't want them either. I'm nervous about the procedure though. I've been thinking going with the Essure method because I can't handle thinking about going under anesthesia. Anyone have experience with Essure?
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Post by bluebananaeater on Nov 15, 2016 14:44:21 GMT
I think there's a class action suit against essure right now.
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Post by PiercedOff on Nov 15, 2016 14:57:41 GMT
I've heard a LOT of horror stories about Essure :/
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